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Lucio Diaz, 50, was allegedly caught in the act after the victim … "@ArtofASOIAF she cut that but decided to leave rhaena's scene where she says that daemon ignores her and then proceeded to do NOTHING about it. She just wants to make him look so bad for no reason. He's a lot of things but he's not a bad father or brother and he was a good husband to laena" Inside the pop-up, Kardashian first explained why she decided to include pieces with long sleeves and skirts in her Swim collection. "I wanted to make it like Legos. fesmestladne1977. Jobs, homes, relationships—tens of millions of Americans walked away from their lives after COVID-19 changed the world as we know it. For some, joining the Great Resignation was an opportunity for self-reinvention; for others, a shift in circumstances—from childcare needs to personal safety to mental health struggles. Here, eight women open up about quitting their lives how it all started and how it’s going Travel Producer Whose Assignment Abroad Became PermanentLilit Marcus, 39, Hong KongThe diagnosis came in November 2019 breast cancer, stage IIB. For Lilit, the news was especially gutting. She had moved to Hong Kong from New York just weeks earlier, having scored a coveted job transfer in her role as a CNN travel producer. One moment, she was planning adventures in Bali and Thailand. The next, she was mapping out a partial mastectomy and months of radiation and chemo. She had barely experienced her new life before being dealt began that January, just as the novel coronavirus was becoming a global concern. Soon, nobody was jetting off to Uluwatu or hitting the town for fun nights with friends. Lilit felt weirdly advanced in having already made peace with these circumstances. Welcome to the “2020 sucks” club. I’ve been here since the in her hometown of Raleigh, North Carolina, Lilit’s parents thought she should come back; they were worried about her health. She tried to imagine crashing with her folks—her driver’s license expired, her old friends no longer around—and knew it wasn’t the move. She had worked too hard for Hong Kong. Hong Kong was her home it’s too soon for words like “remission” and “cured,” her care plan is going well. These days, she thinks about cancer the way a lot of people are thinking about COVID-19 as an enduring situation that demands long-term protective adjustment. “It’s not over over,” Lilit says. “But I can manage it. I can have a pretty much normal life, which is really nice.”The Marketing Assistant Turned Mushroom ForagerAlexis Nikole Nelson, 29, Columbus, OhioIn the beginning, Alexis wasn’t even thinking about leaving her marketing job. She had supportive managers and a steady paycheck. She had health insurance. Quitting during a pandemic? That would just be in April 2020, she made a TikTok about edible garden weeds. It went viral, and Alexis suddenly found herself internet famous. Her following exploded, and so did the demand for fresh content. As the Black Forager, she shared tips for finding and eating wild plants on TikTok, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, and YouTube. Now Alexis had two jobs Zooming all day for work work, then cultivating her social channels late into the night. When a rare vacation day was thwarted by a crisis at her marketing gig, Alexis had a breakdown. She realized she’d been so afraid of making a professional leap that she was jeopardizing both pursuits, to say nothing of her mental health. It was time, she knew, to unlearn the feeling that she should be grateful for the opportunity to run herself ragged. One of her jobs had to go. She chose to take a chance on the Black Forager brand she’d created, resigning from her “office” job in October 2021. Since then, things have been…busy. There’s a book deal plus leadership opportunities in the foraging and vegan cooking space. Still, Alexis is wary of burning out, and maybe that’s the most valuable learning she’s had yet. “These days, I get to wake up and be like, Is this adding value to my general existence?” she says. “One day in the future, the answer might be no. And then I’ll do something else.”The Second Grade Teacher Turned Marketplace FounderJojo Trumbly, 29, Spring, TexasJojo was an amazing second grade teacher, the kind who collected Pokémon cards and riffed on the wonders of outer space. It wasn’t easy when the world shut down and her classroom shrank to a video grid of little faces. But that was also the week she learned she and her husband were expecting a baby—some happy news amid the summer came and her school district still hadn’t settled on a plan for the fall 2020 term, she started to worry. Would they stay remote? Return to in-person? No one had an answer. But they wanted a decision from Jojo as to whether she’d continue teaching. She had seen news reports of people who contracted COVID-19 in the workplace—parents who became too sick to care for their kids, moms who died without getting to say goodbye. Their stories haunted her. With vaccines still months away, classroom work felt way too risky. She decided to found work with a digital education platform and began streaming classes for kids in China, sometimes at 3 Texas time. The schedule became too much once her baby daughter arrived in December 2020. Time to switch gears wanted to bring her community together. That spring, she launched a marketplace for small purveyors, an outdoor bazaar where folks could shop for handmade wares and such. It’s been rewarding, but the logistics are a lot. She’s not sure how much longer she’ll keep it up. Next, she may start a marketing firm. A dance studio isn’t out of the question someday. “I wanna do all the things,” she says. “I’ve got my finger on the pulse.”The Sunday School Teacher Turned NovelistJacquie Campos, 26, outside Asheville, North CarolinaJacquie had always thought of herself as a writer. But working as a Sunday school teacher through the darkest days of COVID-19 left little time for creativity. Many of her students and their families in Jacksonville, Florida, had been hit hard by the pandemic, and she felt overwhelmed by the lack of social support for her struggling community. After a year of doing her best to help, she was spiritually and professionally time had come to answer a question she’d been asking for a while What would happen if she gave herself the space to really write? She quit her job in April 2021 and booked two consecutive stays in remote cabins—one month in Alabama, followed by another month in North Carolina. Growing up in a big family, Jacquie had never been so alone before. Now, in solitude, the words flowed. She began hashing out a novel—a project she had long dreamed of tackling. When her two months were up, she didn’t want to go back to her Before Life. She got a work-from-home position as a virtual assistant, rented a longer-term cottage, and kept writing. All along, she was tapping into her savings, a finite resource. Then, in October 2021, she lost her remote was left thinking deeply about work and identity. She poured her thoughts onto the page, churning out a play inspired by a career-themed childhood field trip. She liked what she’d written and decided to stage it for a digital audience right from her living room. She sold tickets on TikTok, and to her surprise, people actually showed up—and they liked her work too. The proceeds helped cover her rent. “Now I can sustain myself for a little longer here, just writing,” Jacquie says. “Hopefully, it continues to work out.”The Infection Preventionist Nurse Turned Concert OrganizerJade Van Kley, 31, Nashville, Tennessee Concerts are Jade’s favorite thing. The raw energy of a live set? Nothing compares. She used to tour with her friends’ bands, snapping photos of their gigs for social media. Even after becoming a nurse, she maintained her ties to the scene. She was a the pandemic hit, Jade found herself on the front lines—first doing infectious-disease surveillance at the Minnesota Department of Health, then at a nearby VA hospital as an infection preventionist RN. Conditions were grim. Patients were suffering. Jade’s coworkers were burning out. Taking in the despair all around her, Jade was struck by a feeling Maybe her public-health expertise could do more than keep people safe—maybe she could also help the music world that had so enriched her September 2020, she packed up her car and moved to Nashville, mostly on gut instinct. She sent word to her music contacts to let them know she was available to oversee COVID-19-related health and safety logistics for in-person concerts and tours; she’d help plan socially distanced outdoor performances, arrange testing for talent and crew—whatever was needed to make music possible heard back from a connection at Third Man Records. She heard back from a musician-turned-writer friend who was filming a movie up in Canada. She heard back from the management team for Jason Isbell. They all wanted Jade’s help. Her business, Backline Nurse Consulting, took her greatest hope is that her work will become obsolete because that will mean the pandemic is over. “I want to make sure that if something like this should ever happen again, artists have more protections in place,” she says. “How can we continue to improve and heed the lessons we learned?The Tech Worker Turned Digital NomadDevin Spady, 25, EverywhereDevin was never a staycation kind of person. Whenever possible, she was out of town—trekking through South America and all over Europe. Office jobs kept her rooted to an address, but she was a born the pandemic hit, Devin podded up with her parents and siblings in Houston. Clocking in remotely for her marketing job at Facebook meant almost all her waking hours were suddenly spent in a single spot. Devin soon felt stifled, and by September 2020, she was desperate for a break. One day, she got in her car and drove for hours, all the way to Big Bend National Park on the Texas-Mexico border. Standing among the colossal rock formations, she felt like she was finally able to breathe. This was joy; this was freedom. This, she realized, could be the blueprint for a totally different way of April 2021, Devin left her parents’ place again—and hasn’t stopped moving since. She has no permanent address. Her housing budget goes toward gas money and stopovers in places like New York, New Orleans, and Santa Fe. She still works remotely now for Bumble and relocates whenever she likes. Many friends envy her, which Devin doesn’t understand. “When they’re like, I wish I could do that,’ I always ask them, Why can’t you?’” she says, thinking of all the young people she knows with remote jobs and little to hold them in place. “Nothing is tying you to your home.”The Advertising Veteran Turned Musician Damaris Giha, 29, Brooklyn, New YorkIt was February 2020, and Damaris had a timeline In exactly one year, she would leave her ad agency job and focus on making music. She created a savings plan, tightened her spending, and tapped a financial adviser for guidance. In the meantime, she worked on her first single and a music not that she hated her day job. She had thrived off the energy in the office and was good at all the problem-solving her role required. Then the world turned upside down. Going remote was soul-sucking, and 8-hour workdays somehow stretched into 12-hour workdays. Damaris spoke up She was burning out. But what could be done? Her whole team was under stress of working from home made it harder to create music at home. But she decided to stay in her job to build up more of a savings cushion. In July 2021, she finally put in her notice. She was so tired. Tired of being tired and of being anxious and burned out. And she knew that before she could focus on her art, she’d have to restore her health. On the advice of her financial adviser, she signed up for Medicaid and SNAP benefits. She learned to let herself last fall, Damaris has been more musically productive than she was in the entire 18 months prior. And she has a plan to record and release her work. “I’m staying flexible and figuring out other ways to monetize my music,” Damaris says. “I am smart. I’m capable. I know now how to adapt.”The Chef Who Lost Her Culinary Ambitions—and Then Found Them AgainAimee Cevallos, 26, Myrtle Beach, South Carolina Aimee felt stuck working in her parents’ restaurant. She had attended Le Cordon Bleu culinary school; she’d held positions in fancy eateries in San Francisco and Austin. And yet, there she was in the spring of 2020, back in Myrtle Beach, trying to help keep the family business afloat with carry-out margaritas. Yes, a pandemic was happening. But she feared she was falling behind in and her husband—also a cooking pro—plotted together Maybe they could relocate to his home city of London and open a restaurant there, where public health care would relieve some of their financial strain. It could be the fresh start the couple it wasn’t. By the time they arrived in London in December 2020, the Alpha variant was surging. The restaurant industry was hit hard again. Everything seemed gray the London sky, the national mood, Aimee’s career prospects. In March 2021, she flew back to Myrtle Beach, alone, for a three-week felt different this time. The sunlight lifted her spirits. The roar of the ocean was a comfort. She dropped in for a few shifts at her parents’ restaurant and felt invigorated just to be cooking again, in the familiar hustle and bustle. When Aimee talked to her husband back in London, he said she sounded like herself for the first time all year. He also admitted his heart wasn’t in the marriage anymore. Aimee hung up and never went realized she didn’t need to move across an ocean to get unstuck—she needed to end a marriage that was no longer functioning. Today, living and working with her family, “I’m mentally in one of the best places I’ve ever been,” she says. She’ll return to chasing her culinary ambitions when the timing feels right “Everything’s gonna happen when it’s going to happen.”Photographs by Yael Malka Devin Spady and Damaris Giha, Juan Diego Reyes Jacqueline Campos, Joseph Ross Jade Van Kley, Gavin McIntyre Aimee Cevallos, Maddie McGarvey Alexis Nikole Nelson, Laurel Chor Lilit Marcus, and Arturo Olmos Jojo Trumbly.Hannah writes about health, sex, and relationships for Cosmopolitan, and you can follow her on Twitter and Instagram. Her work can also be found in the Cut, Jezebel, and Texas Monthly. In 2021, a record-shattering million people quit their jobs during the pandemic and Great Resignation. And according to a poll of 1,250 American workers, about 23% of employees will look for new jobs this is the hottest job market we've ever seen. But not everyone is leaving their role for greener CEO of Korn Ferry, the world's largest organizational consulting firm, I've spent more than a decade counseling people at every stage of their job search journey. And these past couple of months, I've been seeing a common theme People who wish they hadn't quit their jobs so question I recently received from a mentee sums it up nicely "I left my job for a higher-paying position at another company. Now I'm miserable and regret it. Do I ask for my old job back?"What to do when you regret quitting your jobAlthough it may not feel like it, experiencing regret is a great opportunity to learn more about yourself and what you want from your there's nothing wrong with a boomerang move back to your old employer, its important to remember that whatever reasons or behaviors that made you leave might not change. It could be that you want to go back because that's the most familiar are five key questions to consider before asking for your old job back1. Did you burn any bridges when you left?Think critically about how you behaved in your last days at the company. Why did you say you were leaving? How did people respond?If you vented your frustrations and acted negatively on your way out, there's no going back. Without strong relationships in tact, it may be harder to comfortably settle back into the if the circumstances are unpleasant, I always encourage people not to burn bridges. Being graceful gives you the option to return to an old job. Plus, there's no telling where your coworkers will end up. You might need them as a reference in the Why did you quit?There's a reason you left. Maybe you didn't get along with your team. If that's the case, will anything change once you return? Make sure you aren't setting yourself up for the same the other hand, your decision to leave could have been related to salary. Too often, people quit for a higher-paying job without considering what non-monetary perks they might be giving money is important. But research shows that it is only marginally related to job satisfaction. Meaningful work, strong relationships, and the opportunity to grow can be much more Were you expanding your skill set?If you weren't learning and growing in your old job, then why go back?The best reason for taking on a new opportunity is so that you can expand your knowledge and learn new skills. This should help you, hopefully, land a higher title and increase your salary. You don't want to come back into a role that feels the exact same as when you left, especially if you felt boxed Did you like your boss?This is more than an issue about personalities. Your boss has more influence than anyone on how much you grow; they decide whether to give you stretch assignments or additional responsibilities that build skills and my career, I can think of four jobs I took because I wanted to work for — and learn from — a particular boss. There's nothing like working for someone who champions you, invests in your success, and gives you ample room to Does going back feel like a bad idea?Let's say your position has already been filled. Or you did burn a lot of bridges. Or you weren't growing. Or your boss was toxic. Whatever you do, don't quit your current job and rely on getting your old one a Plan B and stick to to do if going back to your old job isn't an optionIt used to be that people approached their career paths as ladders, moving slowly and steadily upwards with their eyes on where they want to be in 10 however, career paths that are more like winding labyrinths with the job seeker's focus often just two to three years out. This allows for more exploratory lateral moves and career that in mind, make a list of companies that you'd love to work for at this stage of your professional life. What roles would best suit you? What kind of boss do you want to work for? Then, think about who in your network can make an you get to the interviewing stages, really focus on telling your story. Be authentic and make a connection. With so many trends and changes happening at once in the job market, employers won't be surprised that you took a leap for a new opportunity — only to find out that it wasn't for Burnison is a best-selling author and the CEO of Korn Ferry, the world's largest organizational consulting firm. His books include "The 5 Graces of Life and Leadership," "Leadership U Accelerating through the Crisis Curve," "Advance The Ultimate How-to Guide for your Career," and "Lose the Resume, Land the Job." Follow Gary on missRemove these 7 things from your resume ASAP,’ says CEO who has read more than 1,000 resumes this yearThe best managers have 4 key skills, says CEO of 14 years—here’s a breakdown in one chartGoogle’s ’20% rule’ shows exactly how much time you should spend learning new skills—and why it works Insider spoke with three mothers who quit their jobs due to childcare needs. Imani Jones, 28, a makeup artist, needed to be home to care for her son who has autism. Pita Brooks quit to care for her daughter after her job required returning to the office. Loading Something is loading. Thanks for signing up! Access your favorite topics in a personalized feed while you're on the go. Roughly one million women in the US have left the workforce since the start of the pandemic. While the reasons for leaving can be varied and complex, key factors for many women are often insufficient pay and caregiving responsibilities. Insider spoke with three working moms who left their jobs to learn why — and how they made the decision to following stories are based on conversations with the sources. Their statements have been edited for length and Jones, 28, was a makeup artist in New York, NY, before she left her job in October 2016 Imani Jones. Courtesy Maegen Christie I was just breaking into the beauty industry as a makeup artist when I became a mother to my son, Jude, in May 2016. I was completely enamored by my baby, but was also itching to get back to work. My leave of absence initially was supposed to last for only six weeks, and I returned for a few shifts after he was born. But then Jude's dad and I broke up, and I had no one I could consistently rely on to watch the baby. Then when my son was 22 months old, he was diagnosed with autism. I didn't feel comfortable leaving him in someone else's care, and so I relied solely on public assistance and social security from Jude's disability, as well as financial help from loved ones, so that I could stay at home. I stopped picking up shifts entirely by October days I do grieve my past self before motherhood. I think of what I could have become professionally if only I'd had the right resources and financial the same time, I know that at least for now, my son needs my complete attention. I enjoy spending time with him, and I feel fulfilled by working on my blog,"The Hippy Mom," an unpaid, passion project where I pass along all I've learned about autism and the special education system to help other families with children with special Brooks, 43, was a college administrator in Lakewood, Ohio, before she left her job in August 2021 Pita Brooks. Courtesy Pita Brooks A week after her birth in February 2021, my daughter JJ started losing function of one of her legs and developing jaundice, which tipped us off that something was wrong. A couple of hospital stays later, doctors confirmed that she had neuroblastoma, a type of cancer. She underwent spinal surgery at 10 days old followed by chemotherapy for two months, which quickly exhausted my maternity leave. JJ is immunocompromised and requires catheterization every four hours, so I reached out to HR to ask if I could continue working remotely, as we'd been doing throughout the pandemic. HR told me accommodations could only be made if the employee was disabled, not their child. They wanted me back in the office, so I had no choice but to quit in August 2021. Thankfully, my husband works full-time with insurance benefits, but it's still been difficult without two incomes. We have a 17-year-old about to go to college and constant medical bills. I'm also sad that I lost my free tuition as a college employee as I'd been working toward a master's I return to work, it'll have to be remote and flexible, and I want my job to be interesting, even if it means making less money. But there have been certain upsides of quitting my job I've become a better budgeter, can prioritize my daughter, and no longer live for my Khoobani, 37, was a social worker for family and children's services in Montrose, New York, before she left her job in October 2017 Alexandra Khoobani. Courtesy Alexandra Khoobani I quit my job as a licensed clinical social worker in October 2017 after having my child. I told my boss I was leaving because childcare would have cost me easily more than 50% of my take-home salary, and that the commute — one hour each way — was just too long. Working remotely was never an option in my line of work. This was all true, but the more complicated reason for my leaving was that I wanted to embrace my role as mother. Working for 14 hours some days and responding to other families in crisis at all hours didn't feel right knowing that my own baby was at home, crying for her mom. After I quit, we lived off my husband's salary and relied on his health insurance. We also moved back in with my parents for some time to save money. It wasn't ideal, but it was worth appreciate the intellectual stimulation that comes from working outside the home, but not if it's at the expense of my mental health and being present for my family. I hope I'll never have to return to full-time work. Lindsey Gamard, 38, quit her job at a technology company during the Lindsey GarnardLindsey Gamard, 38, knew she wanted to quit her job when she saw many of her co-workers leaving."It was like a sinking ship," said Gamard, a data analyst who lives in San Tan Valley, didn't help that her employer, a tech company, wanted all of its employees to start back in the office at least three days a week last Gamard, who didn't see room for growth at her company, became one of the millions of Americans who quit during the she landed a new job before she handed in her from Invest in YouBefore you quit your job, here's what you need to knowHere's what teens should do with earnings from their summer job6 psychological biases may be holding you back from building wealth"One of the big benefits that affected my choice was that the new job is remote-first," she said. That means she can come into the office if she wants, but few employees are required to do so on a regular more workers are expected to follow suit in what's being called the "Great Resignation." In fact, 95% of workers are currently considering changing jobs and 92% are willing to switch industries to land a new position, a recent survey by career site Monster found."The pandemic has created an opportunity for so many of us to reexamine our life, our career, our everything," said Vicki Salemi, Monster career you won't leave your job before you have a new if you can't take it anymore and want to resign without another role lined up, at least make sure you have about six months of expenses saved up, said Tejal Wagadia, a Chandler, Arizona-based career coach and recruiter. Wagadia says she has helped almost 10,000 people find jobs in the past seven years."People think the job search is going to take them a couple of weeks," she said. "It will not. It will take a couple of months."That's why it's important to have a plan. Here are five things career experts say you should do in your job swap — and one you shouldn' Identify your wantsThe most important thing to figure out is what type of work you want to be doing, who you want to be doing it for and the pay, Salemi said."Now is an excellent time for people thinking of making a career change," Salemi said."So many companies are hiring and looking for transferable skills, so you don't necessarily need experience in that specific job," she you know what you want to do, come up with a list of target companies and include the type of company, type of job, company size and revenue, Wagadia Set up job alertskate_sept2004 E+ Getty ImagesBy creating job alerts through career websites, you'll be notified when a new job is posted. If you see a job you are interested in, don't wait to apply."Employers are eager to hire," Salemi said. "If you see a job opportunity, aim to apply the same day."3. Tweak your resumeChange your resume each time you submit a new application so that it matches the job description, Wagadia said."Go line by line and read through everything they have listed," she it is a large list, pay most attention to the first three to seven duties and three to five skills the company is looking you are making a career change, highlight your transferable skills in an executive NetworkLuis Alvarez DigitalVision Getty ImagesReach out to people you know that may be in the industry or company you'd like to join."You are looking for the right fit, not just actual job but company values, what they stand for, what their benefits are like," Salemi is a good way to find out if there are people you know at a given company. Just go to the company's page and it will show you what connections work Explain a gapIf you quit your job to look for another one, you don't necessarily have to worry about a gap in your resume."Gaps are not a deal breaker, as they used to be," she said. "Right now in the pandemic, anything goes."Be prepared to answer questions about why you left your last employer, such as the desire to focus 100% on a job search."Pivot and flow the conversation into something like, 'This is why I'm so interested in your role," Salemi said."Demonstrate your enthusiasm and excitement."6. Don't settle

her job was so that she decided to quit it